How to Tell If It’s Muscle Tension or Nervous System Overload
- Sandy Cole-Cross

- Jul 23
- 2 min read
Updated: Sep 4
You stretch. You roll. You even book the massage. But the tension comes right back like an ex who doesn’t get the hint. Sound familiar? Is it muscle tension or nervous system overload?
Here’s something most people don’t know: Not all muscle tightness is muscular. Sometimes, your body isn’t physically tight — it’s neurologically guarded. Yup. That tight neck, locked-up low back, or buzzing shoulder blades might not be because you’re weak or inflexible. It might be your nervous system trying to protect you.
Wait… What’s the Nervous System Got to Do With It?
Everything. Your nervous system is your internal security guard. If it senses:
Too much stress
Pain it can’t resolve
Unsafe movement
Burnout
… it doesn’t wait around. It sends signals to tighten, guard, and restrict. Even if nothing is “injured,” your body gets the message: freeze, hold, stay alert.
How to Identify Muscle Tension vs. Nervous System Overload
Signs of Muscle Tension
Here are some signs it’s muscle tension:
✅ You feel tight after working out.
✅ Gentle stretching helps.
✅ Massage brings lasting relief.
✅ The area feels sore, but mobile.
Signs of Nervous System Overload
Now, signs it’s nervous system overload:
🚨 Tension doesn’t go away — even with stretching.
🚨 You’re clenching your jaw or shallow-breathing.
🚨 You feel wired or foggy at the same time.
🚨 Body feels “stuck” or heavy for no reason.
If this is sounding way too familiar — you’re not broken. You’re just stuck in protective mode.
What Actually Helps?
Targeted Bodywork
🌀 Targeted bodywork that communicates safety, not just force.
Intentional Movement
🌀 Intentional movement with breath — even simple, slow motions.
Supportive Tools
🌀 Supportive tools like moist heat, smart cupping, magnesium.
Awareness-Based Practices
🌀 Awareness-based practices — not just stretches, but listening to the body.
The Importance of Understanding Your Body
Understanding the difference between muscle tension and nervous system overload is crucial. It can guide you to the right solutions. If you address the wrong issue, you might not find relief.
When to Seek Professional Help
If you’ve been stuck in tension that won’t quit, consider seeking professional help. Recovery Tune-Ups and Deep Myofascial Release sessions can help your body feel safe to release.
Final Thoughts
Tension isn’t always what it seems. Sometimes your muscles need massage. Sometimes your nervous system needs a downshift. The trick is knowing which — and that’s where I come in.
If you’re ready to take the next step, Schedule Your Massage Today!
I’ve got you.




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